Hi~

My name is Chien.

I'm not sure about "My parents have said that you coan either go with them? " means. XD If I misunderstand what you mean, you can send another letter to explain it.  Chien will help you to figure out your questions. ^^

First,  you have to consider about where you want to leave? This question is very important.

Because the decision that you make, is not about your parents, is not about their jobs, is not about where they want you to leave. 

This is your life. You can think about where you like to leave and where you want to stay. Maybe leave with your aunt is not a bed thing, maybe go to Shanghai is your new life. You will have some new friends, new house,  split-new everything. 

Have a nice day! 

By 小倩